Seven steps to moving forward

Situations and circumstances occur on a daily bases, dissolving this dilemma when it happens has seven steps you must concur before moving forward. This requires coming face to face with your present adversity and facing your tragedy head on.

Acceptance of the situation
Learn to accept the things you cannot change. Depending upon the situation you are faced with, it is to be expected that you are going to struggle over the possibility of whether or not you can change and move forward. However, there isn't anything you can do about the past.

Taking responsibility
This is your life; you must make the first move and allow others to attach to your movements. For you to take responsibility for your life, you must acknowledge that your life is your responsibility. No one can live your life for you.

Conditioning the mind
Conditioning your mind simply means to train your mind to do what you desire. Just like anything else you want to master, you need to do it over and over again until it's programmed into your memory system. The mind is like a sponge--it sucks up whatever you give it, and then it becomes a habit.

Making the right decisions
Making the right decision is so valuable that it could alter your whole life in a dramatic way. This is why rushing to make a quick decision can be dangerous to your life-long plan. When making decisions, you must rely on a granted source.

Build a team
You are not the whole puzzle, only part of the puzzle that makes up the entire puzzle. This means that you contribute. You are a part of something larger than yourself; however, you must understand the mission or the objective at hand, however, you are part of a team.

Believing
Believe means to have a firm grip and accept something as true.You wouldn't accomplish anything with a positive mind unless you believe. Just like an ad endorser, if you advertise a product that you yourself do not believe in, then the whole thing is moot, isn't it? It's the same way with life. You cannot go around doing things just for the sake of it and not really putting your heart and soul into it. You have to believe!

Define the new normal
The new norm is the end result. The feeling of victory and success is great when it becomes the new norm. The new norm can be described as old things gone and new things coming alive.

Motivational Speaker/Author Carl Mathis
Author of Life is What You Make It - Seven Steps to Moving Forward
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